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Imagination

Much has been written about famous men and women who have achieved success in spite of hardship and difficult childhoods. We admire them for what they have achieved, seemingly from nothing.
Imagination is something inherent in everyone but successful people have used their imagination to motivate themselves to succeed. How did they do this? Very simply, by using an event or situation that appeared in their daily lives. In their mind they turned that subject into something they wanted to believe in, so they could recall it again and again.

Imagination

For example, every young child who sees Peter Pan would like to think that they, too, can ‘fly’ like the boy who never grew up. After parents put a stop to the actual flying, the children then go on to imagine flying and other situations involving Peter Pan, Captain Hook and the Crocodile, etc. Children build these situations into their imagination so they have a clear picture in their mind of what they would like to see.
Other children might decide that if they cannot fly like Peter Pan, then they are not going to follow through on anything associated with the play, so the story and the meaning are soon forgotten. This may change if there is encouragement by parents, family, friends and teacher
For example, a friend of mine, when she was young , started to copy the actions of famous people. She consciously incorporated some of their character traits into her everyday living. This practice did not catapult her to fame, but she did develop a strong and sensuous personality which has been very beneficial to her in work and relationships.
There are a myriad of ways to encourage this creative power called imagination, through events in everyday living such as: books, films, television programs, discussions, trips, sightseeing, socializing, the theatre – the list is endless. If you have a computer with a broadband or cable connection at home, you can also use various websites to stimulate the children’s imagination. Definitely one of the most popular ways to encourage the creative visions in a young person is through books. The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis exposes young readers to a story rich in adventure and belief. Perhaps not immediately, but sometime in the future, the reader may think seriously about the message of love, support and belief in God contained in this book and will be able to draw on it.
In another set of adventure books called Hell’s Gate Trilogy, a young person has the opportunity to see how belief affects their every day lives. This is demonstrated by the extraordinary adventures three young people fall into and the three angels/animals who accompany them. These books are set in three different places in the world and in one adventure the youngsters travel through time. There is plenty of opportunity for readers to use their imagination in these books.
If the family likes to participate in games with their children, putting imagination to work in a game can be enjoyable and interesting. Just organize everyone into small or large teams, give them a subject, and ask them to write a one page story about that subject. There is a time line for completing this, and the results are read to the rest of the gathering when everyone has finished. It can be very funny!
The more children practice imagination, the more likely it is that they will be successful in various aspects of their life. This is not an easy task to accomplish; as it becomes more difficult to sustain the image seen initially and then follow it through to success. Many have done it. They have taken the image they created, have kept it in front of them and pursued it with a passion. In all probability, they had lots of encouragement from people around them, which is most important. Perhaps in some cases they have not had any inspiration from other people, but have hung onto their vision until it became a reality. We may never know the circumstances behind success, but one thing we do know is that imagination counts in the lives of our children.

©2008 Susan Lancaster.
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Self-Confidence

Dog and I go to the beach every morning. Dog swims. I sit and celebrate life and how comfortable I feel with everything – well, almost.
It was not always so. For years lack of self-confidence plagued me and I often wonder what I could have done or where I could have been if self-doubt had not existed. I’m sure this is also true of many other people. To help those who suffer from lack of self-confidence, I wrote everything down in a booklet in the hope that it will encourage people to get help if needed.
If there are people in your life whom you feel you could help, perhaps you can. If they have a confidence problem, you might want to pass along the following – WRITE IT DOWN. Let me explain.
By putting thoughts and feelings down on paper, we cannot push them out of our minds – we have to face them. Just like a shopping list, if we don’t commit our needs to paper we find later that we want what we don’t have because we never wrote it down.
Today people go to the gym to tone their bodies; enjoy a massage to alleviate stress; have their hair done with a facial and a manicure to help them look more beautiful; but what about their minds? Do they do any exercises to improve the brain which governs all positive and negative thoughts?
The mind is clever, it manipulates and if we decide not to deal with something, even remotely unpleasant, the mind just shuts it out of our thinking, and periodically that something keeps coming back and gradually trouble starts. But, if that something is written down, we are not able to ignore it– it’s there and we must deal with the issue. The black and white scenario of paper and pen also helps us to think more logically, and urges us to find a solution because we can’t stand the sight of that wretched piece of paper any longer!
The negative event that triggers defeatist thinking and subsequently self-doubt can be large or small. Whatever the magnitude, the subject can be less overwhelming if the facts are written down. This can be done like a shopping list – one brief statement at a time for you to revisit on a regular basis. Slowly, as one small part of the issue is solved, our confidence and peace of mind grow on a relative scale. Gradually, the whole issue is resolved and negative thoughts are replaced by positive attitudes enabling us to move on.
Along with the shopping list comes the necessity to address areas of our lives that prompted or contributed to self-doubt initially. For example, my booklet suggests that we take a look into the following areas of our lives: our belief system, people, attitudes, self-awareness and acceptance. There are many details under these headings worth looking at twice, because we will no doubt identify with some of the points that caused self-doubt in the first place. If we recognize a personal attitude that needs fixing and make an effort to take action, as we work with either ourselves or someone else, we get good vibes and good feelings.
Many of you who are reading this article will have probably come to terms with a number of life’s problems and, like me, your inclination is to let people know that WTSWTG (what they see is what they get.) But, what about the many people who still have major problems? Can we help them realize that they can help themselves or seek outside help to combat this insidious feeling of self-doubt?

The E-booklet – “80 Ideas to Improve Self Confidence” is available for $10 Can.

© Susan Lancaster 2008
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Should our children know God?

For some children, who are part of a family where God plays an important role, they already have the advantage of knowing about Him.

For other children, where God is entirely absent from family life, they don’t know about Him.

And still for others, whose family members are lukewarm about any type of spiritual presence, the children really don’t know whether God exists or doesn’t exist.

As adults, we can either do something about this, or ignore it. The choice is that simple. I was on a cruise recently where I had a fabulous time. On the last day I was sitting in the lounge thinking about the cruise, and my thoughts turned to three adventure books I had written about children getting to know God. The books are about three teenagers who fall head long into exciting adventures. An ostrich, a tiger and a bald eagle, accompany the children. These animals are far from ordinary, they are angels, causing mayhem, disbelief and chaos as they stay firmly by Kate, James and Amanda. What a wonderful analogy, I thought, those children and this cruise. Let me explain.

Throughout the books, it is suggested, very subtly, how much a young person can benefit from believing in God who is always there for them, although they can never see Him.
Cruise travel has moved on since I was last at sea, but what has not moved on is the reliance and trust we place in the captain of the ship when we travel by sea. Our complete past, present and future is in the hands of the ship’s captain. We believe that everything will be just fine, in spite of the remote possibilities of serious problems, especially perhaps in bad weather where there is very limited control – even for the captain of the ship. This trust has developed because there is little evidence of major sea disasters involving large passenger ships for many years due to incredibly advanced technology.
We therefore board the ship with the confidence and assurance that the journey will go according to plan and there will be no problems. It never enters our heads to worry about anything. The captain will steer the ship; he will see that every little need or want of its passengers is met. We expect that he will keep us safe and ensure that the crew are also committed to this.
For the captain of the ship, the buck stops with him. His ship, crew and passengers are his responsibility. No matter what anyone else is doing, he, or his designate, will be at the helm 24/7. (Naturally, passengers do their part to make it easier for the officers and crew to accommodate them and carry out their work on the ship.) The position of captain of a ship and the response of the passengers to the rules and regulations in force, is called discipline. If passengers do not obey the regulations, they could possibly become a hazard and liability to the safety of the ship. All of this we accept without question when we book a cruise. During the voyage, we become complacent, forgetting about everything but having a good time and enjoying ourselves.
Given the above scenario why do we, as human beings, have so much trouble trusting in God? We go on a cruise or board a plane and we put our implicit trust in the captain of the ship or the plane. If we are not able to equate this trust with trust in God, why should we deny our children this opportunity? Encourage them to believe in God and that He is there whenever they need Him. There is no need to educate them at high school or college level about God, just assure them that there is a great being who is keeping watch over them as they start their lives. That is enough for now. When they are older they can learn more and start making choices. Why not let them get on the ‘cruise ship’ and know that a ‘captain’ is looking after them? They needn’t know His name or what their parents feel about Him, or what anybody else believes. But they do need to know that when they emerge from the love and protection of their parents, outside the home – especially during the school years, there is someone else who is there for them and will keep the ship on course.
For many children, until they become adults, they don’t really have a handle on the depths of religious belief. The subject of beliefs, religion and children cross paths from time to time, but the young person’s focus is more on growing up and coping with what lies before them. While exploring the theories and spirituality of life about them children will eventually accept or reject the theories and experience they have encountered. But, in order to make this decision, the child must be exposed to the facts. To encourage them in a simple belief initially, might also help them in the area of discipline.
The captain, crew and passengers of a ship have to depend on discipline on board. In Hell’s Gate Trilogy, the books I have written, when Kate, James and Amanda realize that someone is watching over them, they also learn that there is a small thing called discipline needed to realize the benefits of a relationship with God.
In turn this will introduce the young person to the discipline required to make progress in their own life, whether we acknowledge a greater being or not. Too often we don’t have this discipline and we do what we want to do, not what we are supposed to do or what we have been taught to do, or what we have learned to do. On board ship this would be a recipe for disaster. How far are we going to progress in a career or life without the will to get things done and the discipline to do them? By encouraging our children to think about God, might give them a head start. We must ask ourselves why we would not give the child the knowledge of God, when we are only too willing to give the child everything else?
Is it because we are set in our own ways and ideology in general and find it hard to be liberal towards our children in the area of religious or spiritual beliefs? Why can’t we give them this small confidence of belief? It doesn’t matter how dogmatic we are, a child will ultimately go his or her own way and believe in what he or she wants.

To conclude on an interesting and positive note, according to new research at the University of British Columbia, if people are made aware of words like God, spirit, divine or prophet, these people are inclined to be nicer and more generous.

What more could we ask for our children?

© Susan Lancaster 2008
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Stretching Your Imagination – Testing to see if you have a flair for writing.

Writers Block

How many times have you said “I should write a book,” and then you promptly forget that you ever thought or said that. However, the nagging wish to write a book keeps coming back, but you silence those thoughts with self-talk like, “I don’t have time to write,” or “I can’t write anyway.” What rubbish – have you ever given it a try? Next time you want to write, don’t ignore those feelings – try the following small experiment.
Grab a pen, writing pad and a good dose of determination and go to the nearest mall if the weather is cold and wet, or outside to the nearest park if the day is warm and dry. Look around for something that sparks your interest. In the mall it might be a display of shoes for sale outside the shoe store. At the park it may be a park bench with an inscription on the back of it that interests you. Now, zoom in on your subject, let your imagination go as far as it will go and write a one page story, or longer if you wish, about your topic, whether it be the shoe store, the park bench or something else you’ve chosen. You might, for example, imagine there is a microchip between the sole and instep of one of those pairs of shoes, or, that a shady character is sitting on the park bench!

Your written word can be secretive, ridiculous, emotional, devious, joyful, etc. etc., but WRITE. Don’t even think about grammar and spelling – just WRITE.
If your imagination is not working and you are having difficulty even getting to the half way mark, never mind the end of the page, perhaps the book idea should go to the bottom of your priority list for the time being. If, on the other hand, your imagination soars and at the end of the page you need several more pages to tell your story, then maybe you should think about writing. If you do the above exercise, at least you will know whether writing is something you should do now or perhaps later on.

Writing a book is a wonderful and gratifying experience but it is not easy. The general opinion seems to be that if you can put words on paper and your grammar is not too bad – then go for it. Not so, writing a book or any kind of story demands hard work. It requires a good knowledge of grammar and writing in various forms; most of all it needs bums in seats for a number of hours per day, every day, with no interruptions. Furthermore, if you think writing is hard work – wait until you have to sell a book – either to a publisher or to your audience. Having said that, writing is also fun and absorbing and you should write that book even if it is only a short one. Just don’t trick yourself into believing that your first book will just walk off the shelves – it will require some marketing effort.
A best selling author suggests it is likely you can get a book published with three qualities, talent, passion and discipline, but that you are unlikely to get the book published if the word discipline is absent. Discipline is the key ingredient for all of us, and we know how tough that can be.
Put your writing skills to the test and if you feel like it, send the results to me at info@snosrappublishing.com for comment.

© Susan Lancaster 2008
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